Are You a Bulldozer, a Diplomat, or a Ghost? | Power Up Method

Free Quiz — Joe Dillon

Are You a Bulldozer, a Diplomat, or a Ghost?

Most couples think their arguments are about money, schedules, or who forgot to take out the trash. They're not. Find out what's really going on in three minutes.

14 Questions ~3 Minutes No Wrong Answers

This quiz was built by Joe Dillon, a professional negotiator and divorce mediator with nearly 20 years of experience sitting across from couples in crisis. It reveals the negotiation style you're bringing into your marriage — for better or worse.

Your results also contribute to the research behind Joe's upcoming book, You're Doing It Wrong: A Professional Negotiator's Seven-Step Framework for Married Couples, coming in 2027. We're grateful for your participation.

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"They didn't fail their marriage because they stopped loving each other. They failed because nobody ever taught either of them how to have a productive conversation that ends with concrete results."
— From Chapter 1: "I've Decided"

What do you do with this?

Knowing your style is step one. The POWER UP Method gives you the framework to do something about it.

You're Doing It Wrong walks you through all seven steps in plain language, with real couple stories, zero therapy-speak, and enough humor to make the hard parts land a little easier. The book drops in 2027.

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